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2 months ago · · Need Advice,
So basically i used to have this one friend , we were friends since our school time ( almost for like 12 years) we used to go to tuitions together and other usual friends stuff ... After we passed out she chose different profession and mine was different from all my friends .. her college was different than mine so it is obvious that she is going to make new friends but those friends are actually the people she used to talk bad about in our school days and that is totally fine because opinions change nothing wrong with that . We would talk barely it was always me or any other friend of mine who would text her first, she would always ditch us on our hangout plans, won't pick up our calls and won't even talk to us properly... once one of our friends jokingly said something to her and after that it got worse i myself tried to solve things so that we still can atleast be friends but and she kinda talked to me after that like replying to my texts she even put a storey about fake friends and all .... later on her birthday i wished her and then she put screenshot of everyone's wishes as her whatsapp status and at first i didn't noticed but then one of my friend told me that she had saved my name as irritation 3 ( it was saved as my usual name before ) then i just felt really bad i am an HSP and I literally feel things way more than I should. Anyways it was her birthday i didn't wanted to spoil it for her so I didn't said anything to her and I just didn't text her and she didn't either then i just blocked her because I felt like i was spending way too much time thinking about her.... but now it's happening again i am again feeling bad for loosing a friend ( because I don't have many ) i sometimes wonder maybe it was a joke and I took it wrongly and I am again overthinking about her..... I don't want do anything bad to her and I just stressed because of this overthinking and don't know what to think or do anymore :(