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I talk to my ex boyfriend today through text. We had a nice converstation. He was hurt that I broke up with him because he wasnt spritual enough. ( I wanted a spritual man , I am a very religious person, he is in the same religon as me)
Well the truth is I broke up with him because he is black. yes i am a black woman. but i prefer white men. The thing is no one is chasing me. no one wants me. My ex boyfriend wanted to marry me. There is a twist to the story. He lives in Africa. I live in the united states. Because of covid there is no way he could get a visa to come here. it would probably take 3 to 4 yrs just to get a vistor visa. and a permenet one.
Should I get back with him because im lonely or just stay single for the rest of my life. cause no one wants me.
I dont know what to do.
thanks for reading. I had to vent. have a great weekend.
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Hi, I'm in a similar situation as far as settling for my 2nd choice so to speak. Me personally I decided not to. I think once we start settling for less, we start to doubt our own self worth. True it's a risk which may end up in being alone, but I don't think that's so bad. That's just me though. Ultimately each of us will have our own answer. Whatever you pick I think you should be reasonably sure that it's the right choice before you make it.
ReplyIt's just pigmentation. You should get back with him. He wanted to marry you for fuck's sake. I married my ex-boyfriend and we've been together three decades.
ReplyUm. No. U shouldn't. Your life isn't 90 day fiancé. If u haven't seen this man what makes u think u could fall in love over the internet. Men in other countries prey on women they can use. Milk u like the cows on their little family farm. Just cuz that man is showing u attention from miles away doesn't mean u get with him. And if u don't like black guys leave em alone. Set your sights on a white guy. Im sure you'll catch one.
ReplyNo, leave him alone, you’ve made your decisions already
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