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I've just been really stressed lately and It's been a lot of things. My girlfriend hasn't spoke to me in over a week and she hasn't been replying to any of my texts so I just stopped trying to contact her and I feel like that was a big mistake. I know she has been busy but I'm sad she couldn't make at least a few minutes to talk with me and tell me everything's okay. I'm not sure if we're still together or what because she hasn't been talking to me for me to ask. And I'm starting to think she had either just ghosted me or she's just busy or I did something wrong and she's been waiting for a sorry or something that I never knew I had to give. Plus I'm starting to fail school, Games and Youtube are taking up most of my life at this point. And I feel so lost I'm just not sure what to do anymore because I don't wanna bother anyone with my horrible sad story that mean nothing to them. I just don't know what to do with my life anymore.
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Hi! Firstly, I always think that communicating through electronic devices are a little dull. So if you're close to your girlfriend, you should see her in person. Go to her home, talk about your worries, try to understand what's going on. It is no help making up scenarios in your head rather than making you more miserable and paranoid. If it's a long-distance relationship maybe write a long email or message so that she can read and understand because if she does not know what you feel she can easily think " I am busy right now, I can reply back a few days later." without noticing how bad your assumptions. And about school... I hope you do not mind me calling you darling but DARLING YOU ARE NOT ALONE. YOU ARE IN THE MIDDLE OF A CONFUSİNG SOCIAL SITUATION WITH YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER. IT IS COMPLETELY NORMAL THAT YOU ARE TRYING TO ESCAPE THROUGH YOUTUBE AND GAMES. DO NOT BE HARSH ON YOURSELF!! You have to take little baby steps. First, make a list of urgent things but the list should be very specified. I mean do not write " study math". Write "study integral" or sth like that because when you complete even a tiny amount of work, crossing a line in your to-do list make you feel motivated and productive. Do not try to do everything at once. Go easy on yourself. I HOPE YOU CAN GO THROUGH THESE HARD TIMES!! Loveeee xoxoxo
Replytotally agree. i'm beginning to wonder if relationships can survive on hope alone. it doesn't appear so, so I guess if people going to misinterpret, always believe the worse, it appears doomed to fail.
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