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1 month ago · · Need Advice
My husband and I are both in the military and love each other very much. I’m almost at the end of my service and am considering going into a special forces job because it’s something I’ve always wanted to do and know id regret not trying. My husband is against this because he wants me to be safe and because I won’t see him as often as I do now,(it has really high deployment rates) but I simply can’t stand the unfulfilling monotony of my regular job. It’s driven me to a depression and I don’t want to live my life with “what if’s”. I really love my husband but I also want to live my dreams. I don’t want to hate him for not letting me do what I want and making me live an unfulfilled life, but I also don’t want to put a strain on our marriage. What do I do??? I’ve tried to think of doing anything else and everything I’ve thought of that’s “safe and makes money” brings me no excitement or happiness.