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advice pls

10 months ago · 5 · Need Advice, +2


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there’s a girl at lunch. She sat across from me yesterday and I ran into her on my way to lunch today. I don’t know her and she doesn’t know me. But I kinda wanna be friends with her. I don’t have any friends. This is my second week of school and I’ve said a total of at least 12 words throughout those days. I don’t speak unless I’m spoken too. Everyone already has friends and friend groups and people to walk with in the halls. I don’t have anyone.

I wanna be friends with this girl so I hope I see her tomorrow. She’s pretty and I don’t know I just feel like she’s my best bet at making a friend. I saw her sitting by herself at lunch today. I was too scared to go up to her and sit next to her. I don’t even know what to say. Tomorrow I wanna become her friend. But what should I talk about witht her? She’s not in any of my classes I only see her at lunch.

It’s pretty easy to spot her out since her hair is like an orangey color but not like super orange more like a soft pink I don’t know. She also wears pretty clothes. And she’s just a pretty person. I wonder why she doesn’t have anyone to sit with at lunch.

So yeah how do I talk to her? How should I start a conversation? Should I ask if I can sit next to her at lunch? And then if she says yes how do I keep the conversation from going?

What do I say.

Help. I need friends I can’t bare being alone for another second.

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  • imback · 10 months ago

    okay as a social person i got you, go up to her and ask if u can sit there ofc she is gonna say yes, then compliment something like "omg I like ur hair, where did you get it done" she is gonna answer the question then you guys are gonna talk after that ask for her social if she doesnt have any ask for number, later when the bell rings ask what class she has and from that thats all on you

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    • Novni Guest · 10 months ago

      THANK YOU SO MUCH ILY

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      • imback · 10 months ago

        soooo did it work???

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  • Novni Guest · 10 months ago

    Ask about things you are into and ask questions of people in shows or tv movies or new shows coming out. Tell stuff about you what you like and want to do. Your dreams like talking to yourself. Im just like you btw 😭🤣. Everything.

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  • inna · 4 months ago

    Are y'all bffs now?????

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