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7 months ago · 5 · highschool , +19


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I was just on the phone with the guy I'm doing a group project with and we were talking for a while and he asked if he could talk to me about some things that are stressing him out and omg he started crying and I didn't know what to say. He was talking about how his friends apparently "hate" him and he's lonely and never has anyone to talk to. I kinda just listened and then when he calmed down I said we should go to sleep (it's freaking 11:50 pm now I was not prepared 😫) and that if he wanted to talk more tomorrow we could. He said yes and sounded very grateful. I'm kinda nervous abt tomorrow now lol because I don't know what to tell him to help... yk? Also I don't know what I could even do for him anyway. I just offered because I didn't want to just abruptly end the conversation (even tho it's late af) and I wouldn't feel right leaving him to.. suffer alone... does that make sense? I like him and I feel bad and I never see him hanging out with anyone. Whatev, maybe he just needs company. We're gonna meet up at the front gates after school and talk in a church parking lot that's just across the street. I'm anxious abt it now 😅 thanks social anxiety

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  • Novni Guest · 7 months ago

    Be nice, he's almost certainly being bullied.

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  • Novni Guest · 7 months ago

    Aw, the poor sweetie 🙁 he sounds like he's having a really hard time. Be gentle with him.

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  • StoneMask · 7 months ago

    Just having someone who will listen to him will probably make a huge difference

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  • bubbles1 · 7 months ago

    I think you are being really kind and I also think that he will appreciate what you have been doing. Hopefully he feels better when you talk about it further with him later.

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  • Novni Guest · 7 months ago

    ♥️. I’m just like him and I felt like my friends are not really friends and they just hate me. I just need someone idc how many people just a friend to actually be honest and cafefree not a fake that doesn’t do nothing but tell me what to do eveyone hates that. He really needs someone to help him up. ♥️

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