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They tell us men not to want love, did you know that? They might not say it directly, but it's there, like subliminal messages in every moment. It's fine to want sex of course, we are always encouraged to want sex. Even people who are offended by our wanting sex refuse to take us seriously unless we conform to the thing they have already judged us to be. Not that there's anything wrong with sex. I do want sex as well. But I want it as a part of love. As a part of something bigger. Something that might not even be real according to the latest science. And apparently I am a bad man. Because I secretly wish to have a good relationship. To have romance and passion... You know the things that girls are supposed to want and boys are supposed to sneer at... It probably sounds so goofy or gay or horrible to people reading this. I've never told anyone about how lonely I am though. How I long to have a beautiful connection with a beautiful woman. Maybe even the kind of situation where we could have a family. I feel so soft and unmasculine for wanting this. It is too shameful to ever admit. But I hate to not be able to talk about these feelings. There is a deeper pain than loneliness when one must also remain alone with their loneliness. So here I am. Telling you all. I don't know if this wish will ever happen. I hope it does. I want it. And I want to meet that woman who is beautiful to me in body and soul. Who is meant for me as I am meant for her. To make love and to cuddle and to kiss. Not the desperate making out of a meaningless hookup. But kisses that are loving in addition to being passionate. patient kisses filled with happiness and affection even in the hot sweaty moments. But... I hate how wrong I feel for being this way.
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I hate the way society conditions men into believing they're animals, or at least to be treated as such. I'm a woman, and I've struggled my whole life because I've NEVER wanted the romance and soft things that all the women around me expect me to relate to. So in a way I feel you, because you're a man who longs for things that might be stupidly dubbed "feminine" or "soft," and I'm a woman who will never be seen as "masculine" or "hard" no matter how hard I try to express myself as such.
ReplyLove still exist?
ReplyAll the men I've been with had this mindset that they didn't want love and they couldn't commit, now some actually didnt want it but others I could tell they wanted more but felt like they would be seen as less of a man if they fell in love. But in the end I moved on and they missed out. So my advice is don't miss out on what you truly want because of social expectations. You're only wrong if you don't go after something you know you truly want because of what people might think. Also doing whatever you truly want in spite of other's opinions I think is like the most attractive a person can get so you do you friend!! 🌝
ReplyExcuse me, you're mistaken mister.
Every human needs love, not just women. Wanting love doesn't make you "soft" or "unmasculine" wth?
Its completely normal. Idk who told you all this crap, cuz reading this has me confused on whether to be mad or sympathetic.
I hope with all my heart that you get the right woman, who stuffs sense in ur head ugh
and also gives you all the love you need <3
Gooood luck!
Replyoh god!! there are more people like me who exist i do feel not all men or boys want sex some really want someone to love them intensely being a girl i am advised to stay away from boys because society thinks all boys have only feeling of lust towards girls and that not true. Believe me god has something good planned for you just wait for it.
ReplyYou're human. You should be proud of the fact that you desire more than what society tells you. Lead with what you want and what you seek. BE CONFIDENT in what you want. You'll start to attract just that.
As a woman, this is extremely refreshing to read, especially when I connected with someone who I KNOW wants more than a physical encounter but won't allow himself to say so. Thank you for sharing this. You've restored my hope.
ReplyBro this is how it is supposed to be, you are what a an is supposed to be. Be proud and you will find that wonderful person that matches your wonderful soul.
ReplyI also want love
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