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I've settled with the title of non-binary for a while now and have been content with this identity, but lately I've been reconsidering and I think I might want to relabel myself as a trans male. I was at a football game last night with my girlfriend when I asked her if she would stay with me if I were to transition. She simply said she would have to think about it, and that got me thinking. Whenever she refers to us as a couple she usually calls me her girlfriend and she's also a lesbian. My pronouns are he/they, which means to me that I lean more to the male side of the spectrum, yet the way my girlfriend always refers to me makes me believe that she only thinks of me as a girl. I want to go to my friends about the issue and ask for support, but I don't want my girlfriend to find out. I just wish my life could settle down for one weekend.
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You are who you are. GF is who GF is. Who cares about pronouns! Be you, be in love, and be happy and screw the rest of the world.
Replyi think its important you value your own identity first if thats what bothers you the most at the moment. being comfortable with yourself is the first step i reckon. if your girlfriend stays and supports you during this time, thats okay. and if she doesnt, thats also okay. it may sound selfish but put yourself first here and dont feel like you have to stay the same because of your girlfriend! definitely go to a friend about it as they know more about her and yourself than i do, but whatever happens i want u to know that its the right choice!! no self doubts babes!!
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