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Gender Dysphoria and Relationship Issues
1 year ago · · Need Advice
I've settled with the title of non-binary for a while now and have been content with this identity, but lately I've been reconsidering and I think I might want to relabel myself as a trans male. I was at a football game last night with my girlfriend when I asked her if she would stay with me if I were to transition. She simply said she would have to think about it, and that got me thinking. Whenever she refers to us as a couple she usually calls me her girlfriend and she's also a lesbian. My pronouns are he/they, which means to me that I lean more to the male side of the spectrum, yet the way my girlfriend always refers to me makes me believe that she only thinks of me as a girl. I want to go to my friends about the issue and ask for support, but I don't want my girlfriend to find out. I just wish my life could settle down for one weekend.