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09-26-2021 (11:19 PM)

1 year ago · 1 · confidence, +8


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when i take photos and videos of myself, i feel cute. but upon checking, i nitpick every little thing i don't like about me. i ended up not liking any and i feel sad afterwards. i see everything. how my face is so big and all my features are small. my eyes are wide apart and my skin looks so ugly because of the scars because of acne. my little nose and the bags in my eyes. my curvy and wide back and y large shoulders. my small boobs and non existent waist. my big arms and my hairy skin. i see everything. i know i shouldn't be doing this. but i got eyes and i can see that i don't look preety. i feel so ugly oftentimes these days. i lost that little bit of confidence i built. now I have nothing else left.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

    first of all i want to let you know that you arent alone in this feeling, no one ever feels confident with themselves 24/7 so even though this period feels like itll last forever, it wont & will pass trust me! its important that you tale tome with yourself, its easy to stop caring about how you look when you feel so down all the time but by just adding one thing can make you feel so much better like your favourite belt or moisturising after a shower! learning to be comfy in ur own skin is an ongoing battle for a lot of people and theres also a lot of unlearning to do too haha but just know that u r beautiful and forever changing so be kind to urself

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