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I guess I'm back on here again... What is love? What's wrong with me??? He's ripping my heart and tossing it without even knowing it. The thought of him makes me breathless. The thought of him physically hurts. Every second I'm not with him actually painfully hurts to the point where I'm holding back tears? Maybe it's anxiety but I just. I can't breathe. I can't I'm at loss for words. I just saw him about an hour ago. Why am I reacting this way. Why do I feel panicked. Why do I miss him so much. He hasn't even made our relationship exclusive! I'm crying why am I crying please I don't know what's wrong with me. I want him here next to me so much it hurts. Is this what love is?
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Uuuhhmmmm.... hm. The crying because he's not around is concerning. Thinking about someone you love all the time is normal but you should try not to let it get in the way of your day. Does he reciprocate these feelings? Is it mutual? How often do you hang out one on one and how long have you been doing it?
ReplyHe kind of reciprocates my feelings, I'm not sure if they're as strong as mine though. He's been giving me mixed signals between saying he loves me and wanting more of an open relationship..I'm not sure what's going on. We hang out maybe 2 times a week at best for like 2-4 hours
ReplyI know exactly the sensations you're experiencing. I was 18, she just turned 16. I was ready to make big plans for our future, but, since I was headed off to college, I didn't want to be the cause of her missing things like her Junior prom, so I offered her the freedom to go to prom, and homecoming, with someone else, as a friend, if she wanted. Somehow she thought I wanted to break up, told me to leave, and refused to even talk to me. She said I broke her heart. I'd like to believe it was true, because that means she did love me at one time. Here we are now. She is 15 years ino her second marriage, and I've been married to someone else for 40 years. Yet, all I need to send me into a crying fit is to hear a song, or see a pic of her on fb, or even just remember what it was like, to look in her eyes, and the air rushes out of the room, my heart pounds, and the tears start flowing. Yes. I think of this as love. It usnt something I have control of, and making sure she is safe, loved, and cared for, matter as much to me as my wife, sons, or grandchildren. If I could, even though it would mean my boys and their kids never existing, and undo what was done, I would do it in a heartbeat.
Replyno it is not. you should never feel anxiety, like you can't breathe, or panicked. you might be getting emotionally controlled by an abusive person, unless of course you have a disorder and that you are always like this.
ReplyCould be love but a toxic one. A guy giving mixed signals is a walking red flag. My bestfriend once told me that a guy (the right one) should make you feel giddy in love and not the other way around. He's not like that obviously.
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There are a lot of youtube channels discussing how bad mixed signal is. You should check them out.
ReplyYou need a doctor. Seriously. Seriously. REALLY.
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