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Hi,
me and my boyfriend decided to take a pause, because I just wanted to be alone and needed freedom. Now I have to make a decision whether to break things off or go back together.
I feel like I can’t be in a relationship. I just can’t open up. I want to be single but it hurts so much to see him sad and heartbroken, because he wanted to be with me.
Any suggestions how to deal with such situations and feelings of guilt?
Thank you!
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Jus break up. At least if you break up, his wounds will heal over time. If you drag him along because you feel bad, you will be infecting his wounds, never fully healing.
Replyhiii! first of all im so glad you decided to take a break from someone im guessing you love, because you needed time. i was going to say its not ok to pressure people when they clearly asked for some time alone.. but then u said you cant be in a relationship. so maybe u should break up if u havent already..
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