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How do you even mess up this badly bruh

1 year ago · 3 · crushes, +3


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So I’ve made friends with a guy online, somehow started liking him??????? And then I started liking him so much I said “let’s forget we ever talked, I can’t move on like this”(?????) Because I felt like he didn’t care????? wtf???? Why am I like this???? That’s not the question the question is: I have embarrassed myself is there a way to fix this? I can’t get myself to text him it’s been 3 months I wanna talk to him but I’m embarrassed of what he’ll think because of how I’ve flipped out on him before T-T man I didn’t know how to hold myself back (basically I got upset that magically I stopped receiving replies mid-convo and then waited for a reply for 17 hours, it’s not a big deal in general, I can wait, but he was online, man I know this sounds dramatic) I need some help, I haven’t been able to move on these past 3 months, I have this massive urge to reconnect because it was just dumb me on emotions, he is like a dope person, how do I mess up this badly. Man T-T, any advice of what to do in general? We like really connected I’m not just saying this like a crazy mofo, the time was fun but I messed it up

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  • inna · 1 year ago

    Text him and apologize and say you were just having a weird/bad day. You don't have to go into details.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

    holy crap same happened with me we talked on a social app but i deleted my account in order of thought that I'll forget him but turns out regret doing it now well i can't change anything and im starting to divert myself lost hope hope if world wants some day or if the universe wants it then we'll meet or else we won't it has been also exactly 3months since missing him well he's a real great friend and i hope he find some better friend than me

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  • dreamer05xoxo · 1 year ago

    reach out to him.. first via text then meet him.. if you don't reach out to him you won't get closure and you won't be able to move on for a really long time

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