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10-01-2021 (11:17 PM)

7 months ago · 3 · failure, +11


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Why am I so insecure? The hardest part is that I am fully aware of that that is why it hurts more. Every little thing I see I am insecure about. Now that I've become older and now working, it became more apparent. I guess because when I was in college, I somehow felt that me and my classmates have the same ground. Compared to that after graduation, their family's background status already plays a crucial role. How can they afford condos and dates because they have their salary for themselves whereas I am balancing my money for my family and for myself. It's hard when at first you thought you were all the same but the reality is no, you are at a disadvantage. And I cannot do anything about it. I have been comparing myself in the years since I graduated and I felt like I am not going anywhere. I know it's not nice to compare but it is what I am feeling. I am feeling like everything is a waste. The confidence that I built when I was in college was gone, little by little, because of the way that I am living. What do you do when you fail you?

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  • Novni Guest · 7 months ago

    Have a goal to reach and go for it. Rise above failure by keeping on trying out things and one day you will achieve success with some things.

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  • Novni Guest · 7 months ago

    U should be proud of urself.

    NOW u are grown and u are helping ur family financially.

    U think u failed but believe me all of ur family member sees you as a successful young man /woman.

    U can save a 10%or more of ur salary

    and start your own business.

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  • Novni Guest · 7 months ago

    Please do not consider it as a failure.

    U are not

    We screw up all the time but we do learn something.

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