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When to stay in a relationship and when not

1 year ago · 2 · Love, +5


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Hi,

I recently broke up with my boyfriend. He wants us to be back together but I didn’t. Until now I was happy with my decision but I’m slowly thinking whether we should be back together, because the ideas and wants that I was having for single life don’t seem to make me happy anymore. Time is ticking and I need to decide fast.

Any ideas on how to weight up what is better decision?

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  • jkore · 1 year ago

    Why did you break up with him? You must have had a valid reason. No one is perfect but sometimes you have to walk away for you own sanity.

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  • wandwela · 1 year ago

    I'm not the best when it comes to relationships, you don't have to take my advice if you don't want to. If you can't see yourself happy and content with being single, then don't get back together. If you're not happy alone, you won't be happy in a relationship. You need to find yourself and what makes you happy outside of a relationship.

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