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Advice asking someone to homecoming dance?

10 months ago · 8 · Advice, +5


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The homecoming dance is on Friday and I was debating whether or not I should ask this guy out. He's a grade above me and he's really sweet. I wanna ask him but just not be awkward. Should I be direct and say "hey wanna go to homecoming with me?" or just say "hey are you going to homecoming?" I feel like if I asked him out he'd probably say yes because I just kind of feel like he's interested in me too but I'm not sure. Heck, this whole thing just makes me feel kind of foolish. Idk, I just need advice...

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  • Novni Guest · 10 months ago

    If you ask him and he says no, you'll regret asking and it'll always stick by in your memory. But if you don't ask at all and watch him do whatever he does, you'll regret not ever asking at all and it'll stick by your memory. In either way, whatever you do, it'll stick by you. Maybe he'll say yes and you got lucky or maybe his friends weren't there. Maybe he'll ask you first. But sometimes you gotta go first, at least you have the courage to ask, right? Just be careful with your words, "Hey are you going to homecoming" would be a good start.

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  • Novni Guest · 10 months ago

    I was going to say what the other person commented.

    I think you should totally go for it!! I regret not asking this classmate of mine out and I still think about what would have happened if I did back then.

    Whatever you decide, good luck!! I hope it goes well if you do!!

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  • inna · 10 months ago

    ASK HIM 🤭

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  • Novni Guest · 10 months ago

    I say you should ask if he wants to go to homecoming with you. If he says no, oh well. You'll be told no hundreds of time in life, but if there's a chance he says yes, I say go for it.

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  • Novni Guest · 10 months ago

    Just ask him it’s ok

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  • dreamer05xoxo · 10 months ago

    Yeah just ask him. Like you said, start with "Are you going to homecoming?" Then ask him if he has a date to go with yet. If he says no that might be a hint that he'll say yes to you. Then just go for it.

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  • Novni Guest · 10 months ago

    Go for it! You might regret it if you don't take this chance; even if he says he's not going or he already has someone to go with, at least you took this chance and used it. Keep us updated on what happens!

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  • Sugar_Sugarplum · 10 months ago

    Teen girl trick: "Hey I was talking to my girlfriend and she mentioned you. She asked me if you invited me to the homecoming dance, would I go with you? Of course I said yes, but I thought 'why would she ask me that?'"

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