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What am I even doing with my life?

7 months ago · 1 · Stress need advice


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I’m a freshman in college and attending my dream school. Well that’s what I thought. I hate my major. There is shady stuff going on on campus. I don’t really like the area where my college is located. I’m confused as to why I chose this place. I’m thinking of transferring to my second option next year because I am miserable here. I’m a very impulsive person so I am not sure if I am making the right decision. When something does not feel right I immediately jump ship. Should I give it time, or should I expand my options? Will life decisions always be this difficult. Im assuming they will. Yay.

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  • Novni Guest · 7 months ago

    Honestly, if you are not feeling it, I think you should transfer to a school that’s a better fit. You are paying money to go to college and you should get your moneys worth by going to a college that you love/enjoy. Maybe making a list of the things you like and don’t like about your school will give you more clarity. If the cons outweigh the positives, I would consider transferring to a school that checks all your personal preferences.

    (Also life decisions are difficult. I’m also a clueless indecisive 18 year old oof)

    Good luck!!

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