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Mutual Understanding

10 months ago · 3 · Stress, +2


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I seriously don't know if I'm just dumb or what, but I really am kinda scared of dating in this generation. I don't know if they're playing with me or they're bored or being nice or like me.

Here's how it goes.

So I confessed to this girl that I like her I have a crush on her. I mean shoot your shot, she said thanks and all note that this is around March. Now we're still talking to each other.

I seriously don't know what are we. She's fun to talk to, of course my feelings became much deeper for her. She asks me for couple dp and stuff, we actually did that. There were multiple times she stood up for me. Someone mentioned we're on a "silent mutual understanding".

But Idk lol, internet set up is a messed up thing.

Scared of asking her if she really does like me back. But at the same time you think I should ask her how she feels about me?

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  • Novni Guest · 10 months ago

    Yes there is no harm in asking her that. Tell her that it is okay if she wants to stay friends but you are wondering how she feels about you.

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  • Novni Guest · 10 months ago

    Felt. People in this generation are hard to trust

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  • Sugar_Sugarplum · 10 months ago

    How old are you? At 16 this sounds kinda normal, but if you're 20s or 30s I'd say she's keeping you on the back burner, or using you for free meals and perks.

    I'd say ask her straight up to be your girlfriend, and any answer other than "yes" means it's over. Even "yes, but..." means goodbye. You deserve to find someone right for you, and she's just eating your days one by one making you miss the perfect one.

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