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My sister cheated on her husband
1 month ago · · Need Advice,
Few months ago my sister went back to our town and went home to us because she said she needs a short break for herself. She left her husband back in the city and she brought the children with her home.
They're not in a breakup or something... she only wants to have an alone time for a while, she said.
But as she was with us in the house, we noticed she would most often be going outdoors and meeting with her friends since high school.
One of her male friends from high school, was often with her too. I never thought anything about it until I noticed they were now going out a lot having long rides alone going to beaches.
It gave me a suspicious feeling but I don't really know things about relationships or love so I didn't want to pay attention to my suspicion.
Months ago my sister told me that she's cheating. She begged me not to tell anyone and she said she feels guilty but he (the other guy) makes her happy.
My sister's husband is like a brother to me. He's been there and he's just a quiet person who likes video games. He loves their kids so much and he loves her too.
My sister and I went biking with the other guy and I felt that he seemed nice. So I just remained kind to him too since I really don't like hating other people.
But yesterday, my sister admitted to her husband that she was cheating on him. And she said she was guilty for it but she's happy with her male friend from high school.
Her husband told me that when she confessed about the cheating, he couldn't move. He said it hurts like hell, and that it felt like heaven fell upon him. But he also said that he thanked my sister for telling him. He was hurting so bad.
I felt bad. Because I knew about it and didn't tell him. I am not the type of person who's nosey and gets in others' things.
I stayed quiet because I don't really know things about love or relationships. I just thought that what she's doing is wrong, but that's it.
I didn't take any action.
I need advice, was I wrong for not doing anything when she confessed she's cheating on her husband?