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Something which I feel from my heart ….Yes it can be difficult to forgive but that’s the first step to healing from a trauma ….But it can’t be done by avoiding our emotions … by shoving it under the carpet our anger resentment and pain … the only way to forgive and heal is face your emotions head on … it’s ok to cry … it’s ok to scream … it’s ok to stay quiet …. Its ok to confront ….It’s ok seek help …. And with every tear, every emotional outburst , every moment of introspection…. You will forgive…. You will heal …and then one day you would surprise yourself when the pain no longer stays with you , you would have healed and you would have moved on and all of this can be done even when u don’t ever get an apology back and that’s the greatest power of human spirit
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We have to say we are sorry to God for Him to forgive us yet we are supposed to forgive people without them ever saying they are sorry. I have found that if I do forgive them and give them another chance this gives them permission to wrong me again.
ReplyI am saying forgiving to let go of resentment … else whole life we shall be breeding negativity …
Replythey say forgiveness is not for person who hurt you. forgiveness is for you. forgiveness means letting go of the anger and rage and hate and the fear and the resentment. forgiveness gives you back your freedom from all that negativity. you do not have to forgive and allow someone back into your life. that's not what forgiveness is. forgiveness is about letting go.
and sometimes, you have to forgive a single wrongdoing every day, so you won't live that day wallowing in your negativity. forgiveness is not easy. but forgiveness is not for them. it is for you.
ReplyIt's 2 parts.
Forgive them for being "vile" humans, since we all fall short of the glory. However, there must always be consequences, else how do we learn from our mistakes?
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