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Tinder guy (HELP)

1 year ago · 2 · Need Advice, +3


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I just started talking to a guy from tinder. And it went so well (the conversations). He cares or at least acts like he does. And I’ve gotten attached very fast. And I mean VERY quickly. Idk what to do. He obviously doesn’t know how I feel and I don’t want him to know since we’ve only started talking. But I find myself wanting to talk to him during the day, thinking about him very often and I can’t do anything about that. I have to stop myself from messaging him to not come off as clingy or weird or desperate but in reality I really just want to message him and talk to him. I also don’t want to scare him away. Help me PLEASE idk what to do.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

    Don’t. Give. In.

    Find a new show to binge - or read a new book - or grow a plant or adopt a puppy or literally anything you like.but for gods sake distract yourself.

    It’s not worth it

    Reply
    • antisocialasfuck · 1 year ago

      Ugh thank you for this. Its so hard but I wont. Let’s hope he texts me :)

      Reply

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