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I'll keep it short and sweet; why is it so hard to tell someone how you feel? You feel ignored, talked over, not listened to. So you finally find a spark of courage to tell someone that you don't like how you're being treated, even though you know they aren't being malicious. Yet they still instantly jump into defense mode, "You could've just said something, I didn't force you to be quiet." It's now my fault. Well thanks, now I feel worse. I shouldn't have said anything. All I can do is mope anonymously online. I know it's not my fault but I still feel guilty. Could the emotions just not, please and thanks?
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The person doesn't want to be blamed for anything so they turn the blame on you. Don't allow yourself to be treated like this even if it means moving on from this person.
ReplyEasier said than done when they are family
ReplyDo not expect people to behave how you imagine they should or would. Take it as it comes and deal with it according to the outcome. Most the time, people are on auto pilot and do not respond with sense. When you feel that you can either try to bring them to their senses or let it be. When you express yourself in a kind way and get aggressive response, it does not mean you do not know how to express yourself. It may mean that you just need to take action here. Maybe tell them how you feel about this, if not, walk away. If anyone is making you unhappy, it is in your hands to be with that person or not.
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