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I have a suitor for a year now and I think we are doing good. But I still get jealous whenever he talks about his girl bestfriend. I am jealous because I know she was his first love though it was a one-sided love he said… Their story was tragic. Their friendship ended as what usually happens when the other person doesn’t feel the same about you… I don’t understand why he still talks about her and even talk how he used to feel things and get excited when they were still friends before.. I feel so jealous about them; their broken friendship, happy memories, and their past. He has assured me that he is fully healed now and that I shouldn’t be paranoid.. But God, I still feel jealous. I know, I have no rights to call him out because we’re not a couple yet. And I also my pride, I don’t want to show that I am affected about it. I don’t wanna look so paranoid. This isn’t me. I have never been this jealous and paranoid before… And it’s toxic.. and it drains me… So, what now? What do I do? Should I confront him? Tell him that I doubt his intentions about me sometimes.. That I am not comfortable talking about our past anymore (because I think we should move on from that stage where you exchanging stories of your past lovers) and even saying their names unconsiously… I am so stressed right now. I can’t think of right words to say…
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He is causing trouble between you and him by talking about his past with this girl. He is probably still emotionally involved with her and what I would do is tell him you don't want to see him any more for now and if he wants he can contact you when he is ready to stop talking to you about her. Tell him you will see him again then if you are available.
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