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Guys, I need your advise!!!
11 months ago · · Stress,
So, a bit of background info:
- I go to school in Europe and the system is a bit different there. Basically, you have all your classes together (with like the same 28-29ish people) and rarely change classrooms.
-The guy this will be about, we'll call him Josh and I were "together" in 7th grade. We didn't kiss, didn't hold hands and to only thing we did was hug...very awkwardly. To our/my defense, we were like 12 at the time and kind of like "good" friends, who met up, were curious and wanted to be cool. So we said that we were boyfriend and girlfriend. We did get along pretty well, I did like him but I think he liked me a bit more.
Basically, a few months flew by (probs like 2ish) and I got bored/frustrated and broke up with him. (Of course that's not the only reason, but to sum it all up).
Nowwwww, this dude has been flirting with a few of my "friends" after we broke up and after I wasn't friends with the girls anymore this continued all through 8th and 9th grade. We are in grade 10 now and are still together in one class and we always seem to look at each other. And I don't mean like glance around, no, we really have like eye contact for 5sec, before one of us looks away. Before you say I'm making this up, my friend observed him and said he had been looking over to my multiple times and had kind of "watched" me. Here's the catch tough:
Whenever I stand like near him and we are in a group, he talks to me. But when we are kind of aloneish, he ignores me! (Example; Our teacher told us we had to hang up posters and him and another boy were unable to do it alone so I and a friend of mine joined and helped them. I went straight to where he had to hang his posters and asked him if I should hold something, he just ignored me!!)
The other thing is, that he flirts with many girls. I see him during our school breaks and he is just surrounded by this group of girls. But he does look at me when I walk in the room, we share a lot of "you saw that/heard that"-kind of looks when teachers/students say something funny... and I don't know!?! Does he like me, do I like him? Or does it just feel familiar?
We used to text a lot when we were "together" and recently I was sick and he brought my homework to my house!! I was so touched that he still knew were I lived, because he was at my house like once. But then again there was this incident were I said something to my friends (it was about politics) and he and his friend group were in front of us and kind of over-heard what we were talking about and he was like mockingly and know-it-all-ly telling his friends about what I just said;
"like how I could be so stupid", "of course it was that way" and so on.
The thing is I don't know if he mocked me because he was jealous or because he hates me now? You have to know that the thing I said about politics, was that I guessed the political believes of a man that had given our class a talk about investment and the stock market, and the man was rather attractive (what I said to my friends and he must have over-heared) and this man took a seat near me, which didn't make any sense and so on, so basically I was rambling about how handsome he was and how we made eye contact (which we did!) and Josh probably heard it. Then I said that the man probably votes for xy party and he said "of course he does" and blablabla, kind of mocked me.(Laughed at me..ect.)
SO where does that leave us? IDK!! I don't even know if I like him. I hope I didn't confuse you all and this is kind of a dump, so it's okay if you couldn't quite follow.
But, for those who were interested enough and kept reading, do you have a word of advice? What do you think, does he like me?
Anyways, thank you so much and I hope you have a wonderful day!