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I just made an agreement with someone (calling him SY) to make my toxic friend (calling her AM) jealous.
AM likes to make plans with me and then talk to someone else the entire time. one time we were going to a school function thing and I got mad at her (forgot why lol) and said I didn't want to go with her anymore and she straight up just said "well you don't have anyone else to go with so you have to go with me" like bby you are not that special. she doesn't know the people I talk to so she assumes that they don't exist even though I literally tell her about them.
homecoming is coming up and we planned on going together bc neither of us had dates. a few days ago some guy friend of hers (calling him KO) asked if he could go with her and she said yes so I'd just be sitting there, third wheeling. I don't care that KO is coming with us, he's cool. the thing that's not cool, is pretty much whenever it's not just the two of us, AM talks to the other person more than me (if she even talks to me). like literally KO, aka a guy who I barely know, talks to me more than AM does when it's the three of us. I never even wanted to go to homecoming and the only reason I am is because she wanted me to go with her.
so pretty much if AM "ditches" me for KO or just ignores me the whole time, I'm either leaving or I'm sitting with someone else. here's where my agreement guy (SY) comes in.
this is going to be pretty hard to explain through writing but I'll try...
so SY actually presented this idea to me first. he's my friend from art class so during the first few minutes of class, before we started working, he came up and asked me if I wanted to go to homecoming with him. (SIDE NOTE: I had been complaining about KO and AM pior to this so he knew all about that and the fact that I didn't want to be ignored/alone.) I said yes duh. he said we could both help each other out. #1 he's gay and doesn't want anyone to know (I accidentally found out and had to pinky promise him that I wouldn't tell anyone) so I'll be acting as his fake hoco date. #2 he's gonna be my plan B for who I'm sitting with/hanging around if(when) AM decides she'd rather exclusively talk to KO.
so yeah. thoughts? I think I got a pretty solid plan rn. I'm helping SY and he's helping me. I refuse to be ignored the whole day.
(P.S. if u have any advice on making more/better friends, help ya girl out and comment. Ugh I wish other people would start conversations or something, why is this so hard 🙄)
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I think it’s a good plan. Hope it works out for ya
ReplyHey!! I think that plans sounds okay!! It’s not harming anyone. Also, you can go to homecoming but just as friends. It doesn’t HAVE to be as a date.
I really think you should drop this toxic friend completely. You don’t need her in your life at all. You should cut her out. Don’t even put yourself in the situation to hang out with her. If you want to try to salvage your relationship, you can tell her how you feel about her acting so horribly to you. It’s not fair or right at all and I feel like someone should tell her that she is not being a good friend.
As for making more friends, you can start by talking to some of your classmates that you think you can vibe with well. For example, you can give someone a compliment on something they are wearing and ask them where they got it. That’s a great conversation starter!! You can also bring up a relevant topic like class work or something so you can kick off the conversation. I know it’s scary but it gets easier with practice.
SY sounds like a pretty good friend so far. Use this homecoming opportunity to learn more about him and hopefully you guys can get closer. Maybe he can also introduce you to new people as you progress your friendship!!
I hope that helped a little. Wishing you the best!!
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