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9 months ago · 3 · Stress need advice, +2


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tbh at this point i feel im on and off . like one day im so happy .and other day im sad for no damn reason .just because how i wake up .or morning routine .idk if this makes sense . i want to achieve my dreams . i study . i get bored after sometime .i think i will take a break and see some things on internet that motivates me to push harder but i end up procastinating .i solved this issue yesterday . i started scheduling .i had really good day because of plan . thought i would do the same and be productive today too . but i got that heavy feeling today morning because i did not had good morning routine today . i know i sound crazy . but this is how i feel .

i also get distracted . i have a problem i think .i just want to impress every other guy . i know this is for attention . but i want to work on it .

also every interaction i have with people is stored in my mind and i would think about it everytime about how the person feels . i want to socialise . but people after having conversation or interaction i would think about it everytime and would get distracted from my work . idk what is happening .

i feel people ruin beautiful things .

i rambled a lot in this post . but these are my exact thoughts .

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  • Novni Guest · 9 months ago

    Socialising while you are young is very important for your mental health. However, don't make socialising th emost important thing in your life. It is part of it like resting, sleeping, eating and drinking, working, exercise, and having God always with you.

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  • Novni Guest · 9 months ago

    Being happy one day and being sad another is totally normal. And having interest and losing interest after is normal. Getting distracted is normal. Wanting to impress people/wanting attention is normal. Its not healthy to think about every interaction, how the person feels every time- its really not important. Why? Because people ruin beautiful things. And people ruining beautiful thing is normal. Summary is, people feel, think, and act differently each day, week, month, year. If you cant adapt or understand this, your beautiful thing will always be “ruined.” Why? Because things always change, sometime for better- sometime for worse. Its normal. If you adapt to the change, understand it- its not actually ruined because that is how it is suppose to be. But if you fail to understand, the changes- the differences will make you think that it is no longer what you once knew and therefore feel like it is “ruined”

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  • justsomeonehere · 9 months ago

    I honestly understand how you're feeling. the exact same thing is happening to me and I honestly don't have any answers but personally I feel like this is happening for me because I keep too much bottled up, I constantly want to please my parents and I want to impress every guy because I want the attention that I don't get from others or at home. I don't know if you feel the same but..

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