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I have to get some things off my chest. So basically, me and my friend had opinions on this other person we knew. At one point, I called the other person my friend. I'm not going to get into detail but me and my friend didn't like the way that this person treated us. My friend ranted to me and said A LOT of things and even called them a b like multiple times. And a bunch of other things. When my friend was talking to the person about how she felt as a means to end their friendship, she left out all the bad things she said but managed to say every detail of what I said. I know she accidentaly told the person our whole conversation but I found it convenient how she didn't say what she said about this person. The second time, she was telling her personal emotions to that person because she was upset at me. That person got mad at me. I tried to tell the person that my friend doesn't even want to talk to them. But the person called me a liar, and my friend and the person continued being friends. Should I trust my friend again? I'm not writing all the details but she's my best friend. I want to trust her. I'm not even mad she told the person what my opinions are about them. I just feel like she threw me under the bus a couple times and then worse of all, pretended she was totally innocent. I want to trust her again but this whole situation made me not want to say my emotions to anyone anymore. They just get misinterpreted. Idk, it rlly bothers me how she talked trash about someone behind their back and acted like she liked them in front of their face. I know this situation won't happen again. But she lost my trust twice. I know she said it for a reason, but the thing that's rlly bothering me is how she pretended like she was innocent and didnt say anything. Im sad
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You should not trust this friend again and if you do ever decide to be her friend again i wouldn't advise you to tell her your secrets....That's a backstabbing friend. She is scared to face the reality and on her own time she creates her fake little reality....Look at it this way..imagine her and you sabotaging some body's party then both of you get caught she will make herself look good and leave you looking bad...A girl like that cares only for herself .. You are just scared to lose her friendship because that's probably the only person you feel safe around..But you need to start seeing yourself first
ReplyThank you for the reply :)
I didn't explain the whole story because its personal, so I didn't explain all aspects of it. She did have a reason and shes a very good friend, the best person I could ever wish for. Just those certain situations made me feel very helpless. She had good intentions but yes, I felt like she only cared about not making herself look bad. I'm scared to lose her because shes the only person ever there for me.
ReplyTry Doing what make's you feel like you are in your comfort zone
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