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Ok, so there is this one guy who I am really good friends with and have been for a long time. we will call this guy Jake. Jake and I have known each other for a few years but he is one year older than me. We go to the same school and it isn't awkward between us or anything, but he asks for nudes almost every night. I do like jake and I have for a while but a lot of my friends think it's really weird that he asks for that and he is older. I actually did send a few to him and he sent me one picture of his stomach (because I personally think stomachs are extremely attractive) but my friends think it's weird because he is older and it would be weird for him to ask any other girl in his grade either way (Because I'm in 7th and he's in 8th). I know he is only using me for my body but he makes me really happy. I asked him what other girls he asks for nudes and he said none, so I said well why do you ask me the other girls you hang out with are much prettier than I am, and he tells me to stop talking like that every time I say something like that. He makes me think I have a nice body and I know I don't but I just want him to like me, I honestly don't care how. He can like me for my body and I wouldn't care because I just want him to be happy and like me for anything. I know it's an extremely intoxicating relationship that I have with Jake. What do you think? Please be honest with me.
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Honestly, I don't think you should continue the relationship you have with him. You deserve better, someone that does more than ask you for nudes every night. His behavior screams toxic and you're way too young to get caught up in that. You are more than your body and I feel like that's the only reason he's keeping you around, I'm sorry.
ReplyThank you. I really like him and I don't know what to do because I hang on to everything he says. I completely understand how intoxicating he is but I just don't know how to cut him off. Any ideas?
ReplyYou're absolutely welcome! But I do understand where you're coming from and I think you need to focus more on yourself and less on his opinion about you. Don't let him get into your head once he starts to realize you aren't doing what he wants. Try spending more time with your loved ones and family, doing some self-care, trying out new hobbies and just becoming more connected to yourself. Little by little you'll start to notice you don't need him.
ReplyWow, thank you so much. I will definitely try to do this because I really don't want to be in such an unhealthy relationship. It is really taking a toll on my mental health. Thanks so much.
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