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Good Friend (I Miss You)

7 months ago · 1


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Hey, how are you? Are you doing okay? I sure do hope so. Remember the time me and my gf (at the time) had you try smoking weed for the first time? We were laughing so hard and you had no idea you were high until you couldn't stop laughing. Those were just one of the many times we hung out. That was the most vivid memory I had with you. I was going thru a difficult and confusing period in my life. We were actually just coworkers who knew nothing about each other. We started talking at work, and somehow there was this energy around us. It felt weightless to talk to you. It felt like we could talk about anything and everything for the longest time and not have a single worry in the world. I mentioned you to my gf and she mentioned she knew you and that you were shy but a nice person. After that, we decided to start hanging out. All of us, we would go to the mall, you would come over to our place, and we would sometimes hangout after work. We were good frends. After some time passed, I know you were going thru some things, as was I. I ended up breaking up with my gf after some time passed. I broke down to you about it over text about the whole situation. You were on my side, despite having known my gf before me. You offered me some really good advice and really helped me out. I asked about you, and you were going thru some really tough times... So difficult, in a desperate attempt for survival, you asked me to come pick you up. You were going thru family struggles and were thinking about suicide. I immediately came over, I asked my mom for the keys to the car and that it was an emergency and she let me go. It was late, 11pm. But I couldn't risk losing one of my closest friends. Wether it was real or not, It was my turn to be a good friend. I went over, picked you up. We came to my place and went into my room. You broke down and started to tell me some very personal issues, I listened and offered any advice I could. I stayed awake with you, to make sure you were okay. After a few hours passed, it was early morning at this point. After you felt better, I tookj you back home and gave you my hoodie. That's,the last I really knew about you. I ended up moving to Ohio and I never got to say bye to you. I texted you thru Snapchat, but it wasnt the same. We changed. You were working on yourself and trying to provide for you family, especially your little siblings as best you could. Then, we stopped talking.... After about a year or so passed I tried messaging you. You told me you were doing better and working hard. Then you just stopped messaging back. I wish you the best in life and I hope you are still alive and doing well, much better than ever. Thank you for the memories, You definitely left some memories, some amazing ones. It will be difficult to move on without you, or even forget about you. But just know you are still on my mind, and everytime, I wish you the best. Thank you for being a Good Friend. I Miss You.

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  • Novni Guest · 7 months ago

    Good work helping her. She'll remember that forever. I know you saved her life that day.

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