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Idk who or what I want

6 months ago · 1 · Need Advice, +4


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I liked A first. Then J told me he likes me and I started liking him. We had a sorta lovers moment for two weeks but I ended it because I wasn’t sure if that’s what I wanted. The next day A told me he likes me. I haven’t told him I like him back yet because I genuinely don’t know who I like anymore. Part of me wants to go back to J because he gave me butterflies but I ended it because I was afraid of intimacy and just the idea of falling for someone. Part of me wants to admit to A so I don’t have to think about how I might’ve hurt J by ending things with him. Idk if I still like A anymore. I feel like I’m only saying I do like him so I can move on from J, but J keeps coming back to my head. I don’t know what to do.

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  • ES_P500 · 6 months ago

    honesty. better to be honest, than hiding true feelings. follow your heart. and if you're with the right one im sure you wont be scared of intimacy. i think you like j by the sounds of it.

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