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My parent's said they will be happy who ever I choose... this was when I was single and young... now I'm 29 they wanna get involve in my lovelife.. they want me to spend the night with a doctor ( I'm already in along distant relationship with my bf of 2 years they are aware of him and they don't like him coz he is black... that's all they don't want to carry a grandchild who is black .. I'm asian ( FILIPINO family white skin is preferable coz it is associated with being clean and rich while black skin is dirty and poor... my bf is studying in university in america and he is working hard to achieve his dream and I am proud of him ) and my family is concerned of what other people and other relatives would think .. I personally don't like what they are doing.. i ust smile and pretend I am okay but deep inside ..what they are doing is not good for my mental health... I obeyed them for all my life even the career path they chosen it and I feel like if I don't obey and choose who they want I would embarrass them and they will disowned me... I always put there happiness ALWAYS but now I wanna be happy... but I don't know how to tell them to please respect who I love.. I'm tired of always always following my parent's orders.. I'm exhausted the problem is I work for them and live with them.. we have a family business and I am the manager I work for them for 7 years.. I need advice please how to respectfully not agree to spend the night with a guy I don't know and for them to respect I have a bf who will come and visits me next year.. I don't want to betray his love. I adore my bf he and I been friends for 7 years before our feelings develop naturally he loves and cares for me he is always gentle and respects me .. I love him how Do i tell my parents to stop controlling my lovelife coz it's really tiring me mentally and emotionally.. thank you for reading need advice please..
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You shouldn't be thinking too much into how to say no but simply say no to them as forward as possible. I can't imagine what kind if parents does that to their own daughter, that is so disgusting! I hope you will stand your ground and never do anything you don't want to do!
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