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i have been dating this guy for 3yrs already. i do all things for him, like paying his own bills, doing his assignment and everything. i never really cared about it for i believe i was just being helpful and i love him so much but it is really unfair that he could just atleast return the favor thru listening to my feelings and hurt but he never does. everytime i try to speak he would always think that i am trying to start a fight and it hurts so much not being able to say what's hurting you and being misunderstood for everything. i don't know what to do anymore. i really love this guy but he is hurting me so much.
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he doesnt deserve you get out of this toxic relationship
Replyi will take note of this
ReplyStop paying his bills. If he gets upset by that say he needs to be a better listener. Say relationship is about partnership. Give and take. If he refuses, I dont know what to tell you other than to break up.
Some people only likes to receive. Seems like he is immature so in order for to have improvement you are gonna fight with him alot.
Replyi didn't know something could be hurtful and comforting at the same time. hurtful in a sense that it slapped me with reality. thank you for this.
ReplyYou're his partner, not his mother. You need to be strong because should you leave that relationship who's going to lose out the most? It's definitely not you. You're very admirable for doing all of that for someone you're dating but you need to realise your self-worth and stop slaving away to him for 0 gain. Explain it to him and if he doesn't take it well leave him. You will find someone who appreciates the strides you take to make them happy.
Replybreak up with him. it's gonna feel really painful at first, but once you are out of the relationship you're going to feel so much better.
you deserve better than him.
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