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Today was a hard day at time. im married with twi sometimes difficult kids. I try my best to raise these two and teach them boundaries and respect and how to deal woth thier emotions and all the things you want them to know. Today i feel like no matter how hard i tried my shorter temper of the day made me fail more then help. My oldest is 9, ADHD, and anxiety at a minimum, clinically diagnosed and medicated. Listening and focusing on what you are telling him is always hard for him but today it was like he could not focus at all. I feel like all i did was yell at him today. I try to balance letting him feel heard yet keeping him from backtalking and being disrespectful. Today i feel like i failed more than i won that battle. I see alot about child hood trauma on tixk tock, mainly refdering to what i could uave had. But tonight one hit me hard and i just dont want to screw my child up. Me and his mom are not together, he has trouble at school and can let his emotions get the better of him. I want to help him learn how to manage hos emotions so they dont control him but it can be so hard. He loves video games and i try to play with him but looking back on today i missed him trying to help me play the way he wanted to. I know apl i can do is learn and move on. I tell him i love him at least twice a day and i do what i feel is my best. I just wish my best was better. I wish that i could give him every bit what he deserves. I have to get him up at 5 am so i can be at work by 630. If you made it this far thanks for reading my rambling.i take it one day at a time and try to do better everyday. I just needed to get these thoughts out of my head.
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I want you to know that you're doing everything you absolutely can to support your family. There is nothing that can stop you from achieving happiness. Life is beyond short to force responsibility. If you have to take a break from parenting and get free up space your body will thank yourself for rest and peace. As a father I can only imagine how rough things can be psychologically when being the breadwinner of the family all while providing love. You're only doing limited human capabilities that are normal. But you have to cut yourself slack and realize that you're the best dad your children can ask for despite the conditions of emotional fluctuations that may occur.
you are in the most perfect state of mind that is stable enough to improve. never look for validation from others but only within yourself.
ReplyI want you to know that you're doing everything you absolutely can to support your family. There is nothing that can stop you from achieving happiness. Life is to short to force responsibility. If you have to take a break from parenting and get free up space your body will thank yourself for rest and peace. As a father I can only imagine how rough things can be psychologically when being the breadwinner of the family all while providing love. You're only doing limited human capabilities that are normal. But you have to cut yourself slack and realize that you're the best dad your children can ask for despite the conditions of emotional fluctuations that may occur.
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