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My partner likes someone else but they say they also love me, they dont talk to me as much anymore but Im scared to lose them. What if they love the other person more than me? What if they completely stop loving me? We've spent so much time together I don't want to lose them, what do i do?
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Walk away and don't look back. Don't ever waste your good energy on someone who makes you feel like an option. It can kill you when you always think about others other than yourself and they don't give you the same vibes you're giving. Big No. Please save yourself.
ReplyIts important to discuss before walking away. There could be some kind of miscommunication. We dont know the details as reader.
The OP never mentioned feeling like an option. Their worries were based off insecurity. Besides. OP stated they spent alot of time together. Which means they care about each other to certain extent.
ReplyPoint taken well, anyway just dropping two cents.
ReplyYour advice is excellent; it does take a lot of strength however. Best of luck to all.
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ReplyYou are good enough. You don't to apologize for being yourself.
ReplyLiking is different than love. I like my parents. Does that mean my partner will lose me to my parents? However, if your partner likes someone else romantically, that needs to be discussed with them.
ReplyWhy would your partner like someone else if they're your partner in the first place?
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