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6 months ago · 0 · Stress, +3


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So, yesterday we were together like in a café and he tells his ex called him.....its complicated we are not officially dating but we have kissed (wow, while i am writing this sounds weird) and i got so upset.....i went with what did she say , he replied that she called him at 2 in the night so he didn't pick up her phone , to which i replied you should talk to her , he didn't deny.....but when some new, random girl hits on him and i say talk once he simply says "i don't wan to".....see i know if he has to chose between me and his ex it will be his ex for sure....but i actually wanna know where are we right now....i mean are we dating? are we friends with benefit? what exactly.....to be honest i do love him...its been a year...he has been in a relationship too and still i m stuck on him...i am actually scared to talk to him....because for sure of getting an answer that i am not ready to accept and also i am not very good at expressing things and talking about all this....i really adore you all who are sooo confident that you guys go and just talk directly not being scared of anything.....

i would appreciate if i could get any tips on how to ask him or like make things more clear

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