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Okay, please only interact with this if you're cool with polyamory.
My friends and I are all really close. And by friends, I mean like our extended large friend group; around 30 people. We have always all had this connection and loyalty to each other that a lot of people don't get and honestly it's kind of my favorite thing.
We're almost all single. Maybe two or three people are dating and for the most part they're dating within the social circle. But the rest of us just kind of don't. But everyone flirts. Like, a lot. And some people even do more than that (I swear my one friend has kissed half the people I know).
I'm definitely polyamorous (as are some of the others) and this year it's suddenly hit me that I have crushes on a lot of my friends.
I know this is in no way conventional, but I kind of wonder what would happen if we opened the door to polyamorous dating within our group. The other day we joked that we were in a 30 person relationship and several people excitedly told us that that would be cool.
I know this is kind of weird, but I don't have anyone to talk about this with without it being awkward lol
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ReplyThanks for being supportive (but also realistic!) ❤ I've always been good at communicating and problem solving and I always want to love as much as possible, so I think polyamory is for me.
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