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6 months ago · 3 · Need Advice, +2


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I'll be direct to the point. So, I have a boyfriend and he recently achieved an award for being a dean's lister. He's proud and very happy but I know for a fact that He didn't achieved it on his own. He made someone do his report and some major paper works. I don't know how to react and how to be happy for Him. I wanted to celebrate with him but my conscience won't allow me to. I feel bothered and I don't feel it's right.

Am I wrong?

Ps. Just a brief background, I was a consistent dean's lister. I study hard and I do things on my own. I also wanna see him succeed and experience getting an award but not in this way. Maybe that's the reason I can't fully be happy for Him.

Is it wrong to feel this way? Please enlighten me.

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  • asohighicb · 6 months ago

    It's completely fair feel so. If you just let it be and pretend like you are happy for him You can't be truly happy because in your heart you know it's wrong. Try to tell him it's wrong and say that you support him and want him to be a good and true person (not meant in a way to change him) but it's for his own good.

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  • Novni Guest · 6 months ago

    Who cares. Alot of people take shortcuts.

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    • Your_Majesty · 5 months ago

      Because of these short cuts, many people who deserve to be on that list cannot because of the SHORTCUTS! So, thats very wrong of you to say.

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