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I’m not good enough for her

5 months ago · 3 · girlfriend, +7


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Recently this girl who I really liked asked me out. (I’m a girl, btw). We shared all of our classes and never stopped flirting, to the point where other people thought we were dating.

Now that we are actually a thing, I’m worried that I’m not good enough for her. She’s just so perfect. She’s dated and kissed other girls before, but she’s my first for both. I’m worried that I’m gonna screw up somehow.

Additionally, she’s still somewhat in the closet so it’s all secret. Only our closest friends know. While I respect that fully, I’m just kind of paranoid that maybe she’s just embarrassed of me.

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  • Novni Guest · 5 months ago

    Share your feeling with her. She needs to know how you feel if you're in an intimate relationship, when you don't communicate it causes issues I would know from my parents' mistakes. Just want the best for you and wish the best for you love hope it works out <3

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  • cerseivillanelle · 5 months ago

    First off, I hope that you live in a supportive society. Or else, you're gonna get hurt a lot.

    Don't be afraid of telling her things. Trust me, you will regret once you get used to bottling things up. Don't be afraid of what she might think. If she cannot accept you for you, well, there you go. I know this is easier said than done, but your relationship will be less suffocating this way in the long run. Cheers!

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  • Novni Guest · 4 months ago

    I'm sure she's not of embarrassed of you. She's just afraid others will think of her poorly if she reveals her sexuality. And that's a normal reaction.

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