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Am I not enough?

5 months ago · 4 · School, +10


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This morning me and my girlfriend were texting each other and our English teacher came up. I’m a lesbian and she’s bi. She said that she thought he was hot.

We’ve only been dating a few weeks, but I’m still upset about it. I didn’t make a big deal, kind of just ended the conversation there. I feel jealous and uncomfortable. Am I not enough for her? It’s not a crush but I just don’t like it. Am I overreacting? Is this stuff normal? How could I tell her it upsets me?

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  • Novni Guest · 5 months ago

    Just express that it makes you uncomfortable, and know that it's completely normal.

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  • Novni Guest · 5 months ago

    Yaa it's completely normal as per my opinion jealously ain't a bad thing like until you don't be toxic to eachother its kinda okay.... just confront her about how you felt if she genuinely cares about you she'll make things clear for sure and it will definitely clear all your second thoughts

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  • Novni Guest · 5 months ago

    your feelings are totally valid! i think it was wrong of her to say that to you but maybe just let her know your boundaries. this may be bad advice, i say wait till she does something like this again, instead of bringing it up out of the blue.

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  • Novni Guest · 4 months ago

    I think it's not cool that she told you she thinks that teacher is hot. Maybe she was trying to make you jealous, but that's not a good way.

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