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1 month ago · · Relationship Advice, · Explicit
My bf and I have been together a year now but, he’s not the cleanest and neither is his family.. and im a clean person so sometimes it gets to me and when I ask him to clean up a bit he says he will later.. but when I stay with him at his house it’s, disgusting. I try to look past it because he’s a decent guy, but it’s hard to. He does clean up, wash dishes and take out trash but he has 2 other siblings who don’t do a thing, and his mother is okay with it. There’s no roaches or anything, just it’s dirty but.. Not only that, my mom doesn’t like him due to a motherly intuition and won’t even try to get to know him and my aunt is talking shit about how dirty he and his house was.. I feel stuck in the middle. What should I do? I feel like If I leave I’ll crush his heart, but then again that didn’t stop anyone from doing the same thing to me..