What are you looking for?
Featured Topics
Select a topic to start reading.
What should i do when i was born in a toxic controlling family that caused me alot of childood trauma that could've been easily avoided and stole my teen years that should've been "the best years of my life ". Now I'm about to be in college. I can't figure out what i want to do with my life or what I like. I feel so behind in life.. I've spent years of my rarely going out, and wishing things to change and get better, but they only got worse by time. The only thing that i know for sure now is that i always wanted to move abroad and start a whole new life and start getting to know myslef and grow away form all the toxicity I've been living around my whole life but even this is nearly impossible for now. I feel so lost and I'm hunted by the fact that i may never achieve the life that i always dreamed of having caused it seems so out of reach... I also get thoughts about ending it all cause there's not point of trying.
I really don't know what to do.
If you see a comment that is unsupportive or unfriendly, please report it using the flag button.
Before I say anything else I want you to know I hear you. I feel you. Coming from a family that has projected their pain on me hurts because I relate to you. I want you to practice forgiving them, forgiving yourself for holding your potential back. I believe in you and your dreams! But only you can accept that if you believe that too <3
ReplyThank you so much, this really means alot <3
ReplyHey! You're still here hello! You survived. You have a life. You're alive that's what matters. Keep going. You never know what tomorrow is going to bring. Eat some good food and calm yourself. Read a book.Take a gap year if you really want to figure out your interests. There are a lot of people who have doubts about themshelves just because they don't know what to do with their life. I am one of them people too but I am living happily trying to not give a fuck about any negative things beacause your life is yours and people aren't always going to be there. Focus on you not on the toxicity. Trust me not giving a fuck works a lot. The other day i heard my family arguing and I was preparing for an exam but just when I was about to get stressed I thought wy do I care its always the same old fight that settles with time. And it did.
ReplyThank you so much...I'll try to do that.
Hope it gets better for you too <3
Reply