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When you go from having someone in your life who you'd die for, someone you loved more than yourself, someone who chose YOU... to becoming strangers with that person...it hurts. It happened more than 5 months ago but man...it is not easy trying to move on.
That was my first relationship and I thought I was lucky to have someone like him - he checked every box. Only problem was it was LDR but still - I was so lucky. But luck runs out, and here I am, reminiscing on the past while he probably forgot and moved on to the next girl.
I hate to think that. That he's got someone new, someone prettier, smarter, someone who fits him better. Someone who is physically there with him too. I know now that we weren't made for each other but oh, how I wish we were. I imagine a universe where we are still together and we do everything we talked about; get married, travel together, go on all the dates we said we would go on...
But we can't and we never will. He sounded so sure, so convinced. He was so persuasive, telling me he'll come visit me, he'll convince my parents, he'll be there for me.
He lied.
Where is he now? We went back to being friends for a short time but then his texts started to sound shallow...he texted less often and not with the same energy as before...all until he just...disappeared.
I tried to text him, ask him where he is. Where did he go?
He started ignoring me - I could tell because he was always active on the server we both joined. I never understood why he ignored me. Was I annoying? Was he catching feelings again? Does he have someone new already?
I just want to talk to him. Everyday, I have a sliver of hope that he'll finally text me back but everyday is a disappointment. I should just forget it but I can't. I don't like being ghosted without an explanation.
He views my stories and sometimes likes my posts but he won't say anything, and I don't know why. What did I do? Was it my fault? Maybe.
I think I ruined our friendship by telling him I still loved him. We broke up because we weren't meant for each other and he understood at the time. Why was he so bothered and surprised that I still had feelings?
Sigh - It's not that I want to get back together - the least I want is to just talk again. Just friends. I wanna be more careful. I just want him back close to me.
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you can't stay friends with someone you're in love with dear, different dynamics. you would end up hurt.
Replyyou're right, i just wish i knew sooner :(
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