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i’m tired of being fat

1 year ago · 3 · Need advise, +8


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i love my body and i’m really not THAT fat i’m just a little chubby… i’d like to lose weight but my boyfriend has a belly fetish and i’m scared that if i talk to him about losing weight he’s going to break up with me… he’s all i have right now and i can’t lose him. I just don’t know what to do. Someone give me your advice.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

    If all he cares about is your belly you’re truly better off without him.

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  • inna · 1 year ago

    At the end of the day, it's YOUR body. Don't let anyone else influence your decision at all. If you want to loose weight, then loose weight. Loosing the weight will make you feel better because you're doing it for you. Not anyone else. He doesn't get a say in what you do with your body. Like the other person said, if he's willing to break up with you because you've lost weight, then he's not good for you. You don't need someone who's bringing you down or holding you back.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

    I feel like all he cares about is your belly, but if I’m wrong, and he truly loves you for YOU, go ahead and talk to him. But then again, you don’t HAVE to talk to him about losing weight…

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