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the missing O

1 year ago · 1 · masturbation, +11 · Explicit


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i simply cannot do it

every time i try i can’t

it’s not how it’s supposed to be

pleasure

satisfaction

fantasy

none of it is there

just touch without feeling

maybe if my brain would shut tf up

then i could have more fun

but it doesn’t rest

it pesters me

~ why hasn’t it worked yet? ~

~ does it feel good? ~

~ why are you thinking so hard? ~

it’s embarrassing

all the other girls know how it is

i’m in the dark again

sad virgin

i can’t even have good sex with myself .

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  • loveyourself · 1 year ago

    I often thing the same to myself.

    At the beginning when me and my partner started to have sex, I would feel very sick, I’d be sick sometimes, I think it was nerves.

    I also don’t reach the O.

    If I do, it will be delayed and I will “cum” the next day. Which I find strange

    It’s very delayed.

    I can only make myself “cum”.

    I’ve heard that different traumatic events could cause problems. Not that I like to use the word “event” .

    I hope things get better

    I send my love .

    Reply

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