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Idk whether I should have sex or not ....I am not sure if I am ready or not .....
I mean there wayyy more reasons for me to not to have sex, I am insecure about my body , idk how it feels, there can be some complications, it will be like misusing the independence my family has given (I am 18+ but the place where I belong sex is more or it is only like after marriage thing),idk maybe if I agree he will go and tell his friends I am desperate and slutty or something , it will be awkward
And the reason to do it is just that it is himmm.....
I do not wanna loose him.,.I mean idk what future has for me ....but ...he is actually ready....he has given me time to think on it and then tell him....i mean what if I say that I am not ready and he actually leaves me....I actually love him....idk what should I doooo
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If he left, then you deserve someone better who loves you for who you are :)
ReplyI agree with the other comment, if he leaves you because you won’t have sex then he’s bad news. Don’t throw it away on someone who’s so superficial. Wait for someone who will make it a wonderful feeling :)
ReplyIf he loves you, he should be willing to be patient until you are ready. If you are not ready, you don't have to. Sex requires that both parties be ready and comfortable (and consenting, of course). Love and sex do often coincide, but you do not have to have sex to have love or vice versa. If you decide you are ready, that's okay; if you decide you are not ready, that is also okay.
ReplyDon't have sex. Save it for marriage. Sounds old school but trust me. It will be worth it. Think about it, you want to have sex with him cuz you don't want to lose him. What if you had the same mentality with your husband. Marriage is supposed to last a lifetime. Nowadays its not because of our pre-martial sex driven culture which explains all the divorce rates. Sexual intercourse is God-designed only within marriage. It's a spiritual bond that humans get to have with their significant other. I had sex before marriage and i wish i didn't
ReplyKeep sex until after marriage, I wish I did... sex is very addicting. Don't let temptation take over your life, its not worth it.
Replyyou love him that's good but if you love him more than yourself believe me you are gonna regret it . So if he loves you the same way you do , he is not gonna force you and eventually as you grow in your reslation it'll happen.
Replywith the fact u saying sex after marriage I feel like you're from India
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