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Suppose, hypothetically, you like a girl and assume that you're the kind of person who likes to chase the person you like. So you have been chasing this girl you like. You know that she likes you but pretends that she doesn't and ignores you. You've been chasing her for a long time she doesn't seem to show that she likes you back. Do you get tired of it and stop chasing her anymore or don't ever get tired of it?
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You just go for the next girl. Cuz why waste time?
ReplyWhat if you like her more than any other girl? And you know that she likes you but pretends that she doesn't. What will you do now?
ReplyAlright so you chase and chase. After so many years she just gets worried that you're a stalker so you just stop chasing, lay down and die. Cuz you're tired anyways cuz she just will goes on to the next person. You realize you're not special after all. Why go on?
ReplyIdk I've chased a girl. Realized I'm not special enough and she thinks I'm stalking her. So I'm done. I'm sad. It hurts me. But I have to stop. I don't want to scare her. The hurt overwhelms me to the point I've just turned bitter. Can't help that.
ReplyLast try, just ask her directly..its very simple...anyway at the end you will need to confess your feelings..
ReplyHow long is 'a long time', like a year or more? If that's the case I'd move on. If it's gone on that long then it seems like she's just dragging it out for attention. That's fine but me personally I don't like to be the designated chaser all the time. It's fun in the beginning but after a while you realize it kinda puts the other person on a pedestal while you're lower on the ladder. That's not a good way to start any relationship. Me I usually chase someone for about 3-4 months tops. If she doesn't show signs of reciprocating the effort then I move on. Actually these days I don't even bother 3 months. If she respects me then she'll put some effort into the 'game' to make it fun. But if she's always running then the game is pretty one sided.
The whole courtship ritual can be a real thrill, especially in the beginning. But like any fair game, both sides should be doing some work to keep it interesting.
Replydid it ever occur to you that maybe really in real life someone actually is stalking her? you dont know shit until you ask.
ReplyMy advice? Stop chasing her and see what happens. You say you are the kind of person who chases their romantic interest. Perhaps she likes being chased and is dragging the game on longer than it needs to. Fortunately, it takes two to tango. You can stop playing and the game is over. If it's you she likes chasing her, she'll question the lack of attention. If it just being chased she likes, she'll replace you.
ReplyGuys, OP here. FYI, I'm not the guy whose chasing, I'm girl whose being chased. I wanted to tell him that I like him. So, I wanted to know if I should wait or tell him right away. That's why I asked if he would get tired of me. His friend told me that he'd never like any other girl other than me and he told that to his friend himself. I feel like I don't deserve him. So I'm in a dilemma whether to tell him or not.
ReplyI never get tired, in fact its a turn on.....
ReplyYou knew she likes you tho, just go for it.
ReplyBasically that person is stringing you along and telling the friend base that you are on the leach...
Say bye and move on.
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