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A year ago today i went through one of the worst experiences my partner of 3 years had left me,unfortunately I caught him doing stuff he wasn't supposed to and about 2 weeks before our prom he decided to leave me I felt completely broken I decided to be the bigger person and took the blame for us splitting up as I really did love this guy.A few days later he has asked cousin to prom and she begun threatening me,my family distanced themselves as they felt disgusted in me and blamed me for the situation.My boyfriends mom played a very big role in adding to the issue she always made me feel as if I wasn't good enough always making me question myself "Am I good enough" and she certainly took this opportunity to make it worse she knew what a rough time I was having but decided to copy my dress color for prom for her sons new date my heart was shattered as my mom spent months and alot of money searching for a unique colour and dress design to get made for me to make me feel like a princess and in a split second was taken away from me.i spent my whole prom by myself doing everything alone while my exs family threw him parties and posted his pictures everywhere,flaunting and showing off while I was not allowed to as my ex forbids me from posting the little photos I have.Fast forwarding to months after and my ex decided to "fix" things with me part of fixing things with me I had insisted him to tell his family the truth and give me a redo,as what he had done was horrible he had spoken to his family but I did not receive aplogise but rather his mother hated me more and family just did not care he had promised me a redo of our prom now in December 2021 but has now "lost his job because someone was fighting with him at work" so cannot give me a redo.since getting back with him he has not gotten better there is constant emotional abuse and there's constantly a lack of effort he does not want to do anything for me including celebrate my birthday or holidays or anniversarys,I'm constantly begging for time and attention and his mother is constantly invading our relationship and making me feel like I shouldn't be alive.
Am I overreacting or do I deserve my own little happiness by having my prom redo?
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Love -L.
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why do you need your prom redo?
ReplyAs my boyfriend left me for my original prom so I didn't have a proper prom I spent most of it alone I didn't get to take photos or anything so it would be nice to do a redo.
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ReplyYou are mad to get back with him if there is constant emotional abuse and he can't make make an effort for anything. Why are you with him?
ReplyIm with him because I thought that he would try and change for the better and I wanted to try bring out the best in him.
ReplyI don't think he'd ever change. He's emotionally abusing you and that's not a sign of a good relationship. You don't have to bring the best out of him. If he wanted to change he would have changed the moment you got back. But then again I don't know him and I don't know you. So it's your decision in the end on what to do. I'd advise you to think rationally than emotionally. If your relationship is mentally pressurizing you now, imagine years of being together with him. The decision is in your hands.
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