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I am known for being there for my friends. I don't mind it! I love helping people. However, I am getting kind of tired of being the therapist in my friend group. There is this one person who I talk to a lot. She would always come up to me randomly and start venting her feelings to me. And whenever I say that I'm busy and would listen to her later, she would say " It's fine, no need to listen to me anymore. No one cares about me anyway. " I DIDN'T SAY THAT I DID NOT CARE ABOUT HER! ALL I SAID WAS IM BUSY AND WOULD LISTEN TO HER LATER. IS IT MY FAULT THAT I'M BUSY!? I KNOW FRIENDS COME FIRST BUT I HAVE REALLY REALLY IMPORTANT WORK TO DO! And whenever I told her my feelings she would just respond with "Oh so you depressed now? Lol. You're just doing it for attention." WHY. ALL I WANT TO DO IS TELL SOMEONE ABOUT MY FEELINGS WITHOUT THEM JUDGING ME AND ACTUALLY HELPING ME. When we hang out, she would randomly tell me about her problems. PLEASE ALL I WANT TO DO IS TO HAVE FUN. AND THE REASON WHY WE WERE HANGING OUT WAS THAT I WANTED TO CLEAR HER MIND FROM HER PROBLEMS. WHY WHY WHY WHY. AT LEAST ASK IF IT'S OK TO VENT TO ME. Last night, she posted on her insta story that someone said "ur mom" to her and she said, " Why do you all bully me?" MAYBE JUST ME BUT THAT IS NOT BULLYING. So I told her "I mean he did not really bully u. I'm not sure but from ur story he just said ur mom. dk maybe he said something to u and I did not see." And she responded with " Oh. So it's my fault. Hm?" I really cant anymore.
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This person is manipulating you I promise. You need to know that you and your own feelings come first. You do not always need to be there for your friends if you do not want to. Do whatever you are comfortable with, but your friends need to know that they can't just rely on you to vent to and all that. You need to tell them to get a therapist or something cause their problems are not yours unless they involve you.
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