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First.. happy new year to whoever is reading this. I wish you an amazing new year full of unforgettable memories ❤️ the thing is...My fear of the future is unbearable... There isn't a single day that passes by that i dont feel either like panicking Or like there's no hope.
I didn't have the easiest childhood, i wasted my teen years at my room and i have nth to look back on. The only thing that kept me going was the belief that things will get better in the future and now that it's getting closer and closer. I'm so afraid of not being able to make a future for myslef that will make up for eth i went through... I want to achieve the kind of life that i want but it seems like it's so out of reach... I'm really afraid I'm gonna mess it all up.. I'm gonna be in college next year and i don't even know what i want to major in or what country to study in *cause i want to study abroad *...
I feel so lost and pressured.. And there's always this thought that i won't achieve ath and that there's no hope or point in trying..
Im really afraid of being stuck here in this life that i hate forever.
If you have any Advice pl drop it.
Thank you so much for taking time to read this ❤️
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Have a great year full of hope
Please don’t lose hope, try not to. Your opinion matter and the answer of your future is in your soul, heart and mind! You’ll see the opportunities, if you just try stop panicking and relax, breathe. Whatever you choose, whomever it leads you, if that path isnt right, in the end you’ll feel the best path. But for niw, work hard, exceed yourself, challenge yourself with new perspectives, try whatever seems hardest and this will help you, for now, breathe. You can , you can do and you’re enough. Even if once you fail, you’ll be enough cause we fail and learn.
Good year
ReplyHappy new year!
First of all, I want to say that you are not alone, and there are a lot of people who actually deal with the same problem as you. I myself also deal with the same problem. I had been feeling so anxious since i was kid about the future. I worried a lot. The fact that future is something we can't predict terrified me, I'm afraid of being a failure and i would be lying if i said that I'm not anxious about my future anymore. I still remember the first time i felt so lost about choosing my university because i also don't know what major i should take and i want to study abroad to escape life. It was so stressful at that time that i feel like giving up and i want nothing but to crawl inside my blanket and cry.
But i want you to know that its okay and this is totally normal. Because we as a human always hate change and uncertainty. You need to slow down a bit and take time to breathe. Take a day off from your busy life and try to think what you actually want for yourself and tell yourself that everything is okay, everything would be just fine. I don't want to give you a sweet lie that everything would work out as what you expect, because life is not like that. Sometimes you would feel that life hate you and something is wrong with you. But no, that just how life is. Sometimes what we think is a mess is actually a blessing in disguise.
As for your college, just trust your guts and go for what you think would suit you. Believe me that every beginning have it end. And that's also true with choosing your dream uni. You may not go to your first choice if you have any, but life has more things that it could offer you. Just because it's not what you want, doesn't mean it's necessarily bad. Whatever the outcome is, prepare yourself with an open arm.
I wish you luck!
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