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he left, i was right all the signs that he had given was him loosing interest. i was right he keeps saying if its meant to be god will bring us back together but i know that's his way of saying we are never getting back together. I feel like i lost a huge part of myself he made me promise i'll try my best with college and the gym but i just want to sleep and not wake up, we'd been together for 3 years.... we was supposed to get engaged this year and now iv lost everything. If he loves me he'll come back right?
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If he loves you, he might come back. But you need to not hang onto that possibility okay? You need to take care of yourself, with or without him. People come and go in our lives, as much as that can hurt. There's no guarantee he will ever come back. You need to focus on you, and take care of you. If he never comes back, you'll still be okay. Eventually you may find someone new who completes you, or maybe you'll decide you'd rather stay out of the dating scene for a while. Whatever you choose is okay, but just don't hang on to the possibility of him returning. That'll only hurt you in the long run. If he comes back, great! Hopefully you two can rekindle your feelings and make things work. But you need to not hold onto the idea that it will happen. I understand, my sister was with her ex for four years, and everything seemed so good, but just like yours, he lost feelings. They broke up. My sister was hurt for a while, she felt depressed and she would cry often. But we supported her, and after a while she picked herself up, and tried her best to move on. Please, let yourself recover and then just try to carry on. It'll be okay.
Replybut im scared if i try move on he'll come back and i would have hurt him again and i can't do that to him :(
ReplyHe can't expect you to wait on him. If you find someone else and he comes back, he'll have to accept that, unless you decide you want to be with him more than whoever you're currently with. It'll be a conversation you'll all need to have. You're your own person, and so is he. If you move on in your life, that's okay. Your life doesn't revolve around him.
Replyi understand that i'm just really scared to move on incase he comes back but then i'm scared to not move on incase he dosn't come back.
ReplyIf he left already, there must have been a reason why. But you, you need to focus on yourself now. No one’s gonna take care of yourself but you alone. Go live your life. Make good choices that you won’t regret. If you guys are really meant together, I believe the universe will do anything to bring you guys back together again. If not, then it’s not really meant to be. Focus on yourself. Love yourself more. Invest in yourself. You won’t regret it.
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