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Why people are never satisfied no matter how you try?

4 months ago · 5 · Stressed


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Since I was young, I’ve always tried to be nice, to be thoughtful, to be loving, and to be caring. I’ve always put others first before myself, I’ve always offered people an helping hand.

I am 27 now and this is my first relationship. This time I chose myself, but why do I feel like things are falling apart when I started choosing myself?

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  • Novni Guest · 4 months ago

    You can't pour from an empty cup. You have to care for yourself first and foremost. Then you try to help others. In a relationship both people are supposed to give. Not just one give and one take. If its falling apart maybe you need to look things over. Then maybe discuss your feelings with the other person.

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  • Novni Guest · 4 months ago

    You keep doing you x the right person will be 100% willing to grow with you xx

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    • Novni Guest · 4 months ago

      Thank you! But I am hoping that my partner now will realize how special I am

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  • Novni Guest · 4 months ago

    obviously when you put less effort into something, it is not going to turn out as strong as something you had. same as anything else.

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  • Novni Guest · 4 months ago

    Because first time you did right thing. This was also happen to me you’ll be fine soon. Enjoy your freedom now no one can stop you.

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